7 Signs that Your Wife or Husband is Cheating
If your gut feeling tells you that your spouse is engaged in infidelity, then your best shot is to listen to them. There are however some ambiguous signs and other situations that you may refuse to believe what you’re hearing and seeing. So to clear your mind of these suspicions once and for all, check if your husband or wife has the following signs.
Number 1. You found a condom in his wallet or car – this is basically a red flag particularly if you have had vasectomy and found contraceptive pills or if you are taking pills yourself. And if ever he seems to be evading the question or defensive as you muster the courage to confront him, you know that they are cheating.
Number 2. Obsessed about staying healthy and fit – your husband or wife might possibly have enrolled on a gym, gets a makeover or has undergone a cosmetic surgery despite telling him/her that you love them. If this is the case, then there is a possibility that they’re not trying to look gorgeous for you but for someone else and that your spouse is cheating.
Number 3. They bought a new phone or has created a new social networking account or email – if you have nothing to hide from your partner, then there is no reason to create a separate account from the said and hide it from your spouse.
Number 4. Working late all time – another sign that can help tell you that your spouse is in a relationship with another man or woman is if they use to tell excuses like having overtime at work but didn’t get a chance to see their pay slip or weren’t able to have extra on payday.
Number 5. Being helpful with the laundry – if for example that your man is thoroughly checking their clothes before throwing it in the washing machine, then this can give you a sign that something is wrong.
Number 6. Come back home with a different scent – for any women out there, a classic sign that you can use to tell if your spouse is cheating is a red lipstick mark anywhere on his shirt especially on the collar.
Number 7. Lose of intimacy – most of the time, a cheating wife or husband would not want to sleep with you. Psychologists say that this can be of two things, one is if they are guilty of being unfaithful or if he/she may like to have sex at all times. In the latter, this can be because that they want to release their sexual tension and imagine a different man or woman while doing it with you.